The Five Laws of Feminine Power

A comprehensive playbook for women who aspire to power in the bedroom, boardroom and beyond. | taught by Ayesha K. Faines

Course description

Power is the ability to get what you want. 

Power is the ability to get your needs and  desires met.

But when it comes to your needs, as a woman, sometimes that is easier said than done. 

You see, most of us were socialized, in subtle and not-so-subtle ways, to be 'nice'. We were taught that selflessness, beauty, and niceness were the hallmarks of femininity. We grew up in societies that maligned powerful women, were suspicious of them, and labeled them  femme fatales, witches, bitches and shrews. 

And that's why so many women  naturally prioritize what others want--while settling for what they can get.

This phenomena occurs  in the bedroom, in the boardroom, and every other room that women dwell.

The truth is, women are the most powerful sex .

But few women possess the mindset and  skills to wield their power to their advantage.

These are the women who make history. These are the women who live and love on their own terms.

These women have the world on a string-- and, here's the 'aha' moment, they aren't any different than you.

The Five Laws of Feminine Power is an intensive, 5-part,  crash course in everything you need to know about soft power, feminine energy and the fine art of getting the answer 'yes'-- without  even asking a question.

The Five Laws of Feminine Power unearths a hidden history of the   untold ways  great women have risen above the rest-- since the beginning of time. 

Instantly access to all five modules, covering how to achieve  emotional control and unshakeable confidence,  how to harness and elevate your creative, 'feminine' energy,  how to break free from fear, insecurity, doubt and destructive social conditioning, how develop insight, instinct and intuition,  how to see the world as a grand strategist-- peering behind anyone's social mask,  how to pull the levers that actually entice and influence people, and how to beguile with your presence alone. 

"How To Get What You Want" isn't a course taught in schools, or a topic openly discussed by women,  but you don't have to spend a lifetime 'winging it', trying to acquire and master the tactics and  mindset that success requires. 

You already know that you deserve the best this world has to offer. You already have seen your potential. You are literally sitting on dynamite-- and your days of  'trial and error' are over. 

Based on a decade of interdisciplinary research into the unique ways that women acquire and wield power, The Five Laws of Feminine Power draws from philosophy, psychology, sociology,  neurobiology, anthropology, literature, strategy, martial arts, primary and secondary historical sources,  and the priceless wisdom imparted from many incredible women who  have generously mentored me over the years.

Among the probing case studies  provided are little known stories extracted from the likes of Diana Ross, Arianna Huffington, Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, Wallis Simpson, Jacqueline Kennedy, Eva Peron, Pamela Harriman, Josephine Bonaparte, Bill Clinton, Joan Crawford and Erykah Badu.


What  Students Are Saying:

"Since enrolling in this course I stopped dating by giving away all my power to a man who barely showed me he was worth even taking a second look at! Since working with Ayesha I finally was able to turn down a man who I had given all my power to prematurely and foolishly but this time with poise, confidence, and no second guessing. For ONCE in my entire life, after working with Ayesha I finally learned how to choose me. Something I had NEVER done! I also even was able to avoid dating a guy before things got serious and walked away knowing I had not given him myself and walked away with my dignity in tack. To say Ayesha is amazing is an understatement!!! She taught me to finally understand why I dated the way I did and STOP! Now I'm constantly sought after, turning down men BEFORE we ever hit the bedroom, and most importantly, love myself deeply and fully and take my power back as a woman. I have NEVER felt as powerful in my life with my life as I do now. I can't thank Ayesha enough. In a world that drills it in our heads that we MUST be doormats and give ourselves away for nothing, Ayesha teaches us to love ourselves and to choose us over men and ultimately, take back power both in the bedroom and the boardroom. Oh and did I mention the tactics in her course landed me a job making MORE MONEY when I was used to settling forl less? TAKE THIS COURSE. IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE!" -Danita Hinnant 

"As a little girl growing up with a mom whose relationship with femininity, sensuality and her own body was fraught, I learned that there was something dangerous and distasteful about that side of life. But I was all the more curious about it, and when I was doing this course I remembered a time when I was in second or third grade, sitting in my closet wishing for a secret manual to teach me to be beautiful and charming. As I grew up, I became all the more alienated from my own body and sensuality. I lived in my own head, but I was fascinated by expressions of femininity across times, cultures and classes -- expressions I felt too repressed and diminished to channel into my own life. 

When I realized I was depressed and started doing CBT, the first big change I made was to my own appearance. I already knew what I liked -- I just didn’t believe I was worthy of it. Nearly two years later I took this course and now here I am, ready to apply my feminine energy to my goals, learn how to read people and pay attention to my intuition.

This course has been an incredible experience! I love the vision of femininity as our birthright, charging us with creative energy and sensuality to be used for our own purposes or shared as we please. After taking this course, I feel much more able to respect my own value, honor my goals and desires, separate myself from my fears, appreciate my appearance and deal with other people. It demolishes so many poisonous ideas and puts forth a more positive vision for the world: that male validation isn’t what defines you; that beauty is something you can create for yourself; that femininity is the powerful counterpart to masculinity, and that we all have the capacity to leave our mark on the world." L.K.

"This is my holy grail!  What I love about the work you do, is teaching women to harness their power in reclaiming their own (feminine) so that they're able to be open and free with themselves, first, and then their lovers/people etc. Your work is crucial! Every word you speak has immense truth, wisdom, power and assertion entwined to them." A. N.

"High quality know the kind that actually have critical thinking skills? The kind that are not ruled by their phallus? The kind that build things, create things and fund things? The kind who've been to school and read Moby Dick length books?They are going to need more than a pretty face. Its going to take more than tricks. You (and I) have to come with some Holy Fire. 

For that reason, if you don't pick up The Five Laws of Feminine Power, those of us who do...will murder you in the love marketplace every night of the week...without even trying! Without disturbing our pink nail polish. I have had this playing since yesterday...and it is inexplicably good." J. Anderson

" I  love what you've created here for all of us Ayesha. I’m amazed at how you’ve managed to get to the root of the B.S. that keeps us stuck, call out the exact ways we relinquish our power, and then get to the heart of what needs to be done to start turning things around. It’s brilliant really. I appreciate how you teach and deliver the wealth of knowledge and information 
you’ve gathered from your studies, research, observations, and life experience. Not only is it ridiculously thorough, it has this brilliant balance between this well researched, clearly mapped out, poignant delivery mixed with an energy of non-judgment, openness, genuinely here to help & serve others." E. N.

" I absolutely adore your course. It's so polished, well put together and deeply informative and inspiring! I have learned so much and plan to review it many times. I will continue to share and recommend it. Thanks so much for your diligence and worthy mission!!" Leah Bayaka

"The Five Laws of Feminine Power is an eye-opening course that is jam packed with lessons on how to identify and
 harness your power as a woman. Eva Peron. Jackie Onassis. Erykah Badu – just a few of the many women who recognized their value and most importantly, their feminine power. Stories of these extraordinary women are highlighted as case studies throughout the course (Erykah Badu was my personal favorite).  Watching these women recognize and utilize their unique capabilities reminded me of my own; this course showed me exactly how to use it to reach my dreams. I loved how Ayesha debunked a lot of patriarchal myths about women’s desirability & limitations – myths that I didn’t even realize I’d bought into.  Her course quickly unraveled these false beliefs and replaced them with evidence that women are desirable at any age, shape or color, and no matter her background – poverty, divorce, etc. - a woman always holds within her the innate ability to create her own ‘come up' or rise. This course was well worth the cost and energy I invested into it, and I reaped numerous gains from it! "-DeLana Nicole

"...It's as though it was made for me! I am resonating with so many things and really getting to understand myself, as a divine feminine force, a lot better. This is really helping me to elevate and transform into the woman I've always wanted to be!

Shortly after I began working closely with individual women, I saw this with my own eyes, and the evidence was astonishing.

Women would seek advice for some romantic entanglement or just getting  unstuck, and I would help them strategize,  offering insight into their situation.  But first,  I always posed the question "What do you want?"

And every single time, they would hesitate.

Somehow, in the depths of navigating their lives, these women rarely prioritized their own desires. What she wanted from that frustrating  relationship, from the sex she was having, from the life she was living, from  her career. Or maybe she did know, but there was shame and fear around affirming her desires aloud. I found that these women were reluctant to empower their truth.

I can't say I blame them, because we are raised  to prioritize selflessness over selfishness, pleasing over pleasure, and sensibility over sensuality.

We are encouraged to stuff our own desires beneath the mattress and to leave them there. 

And its  inevitable that at a certain point in our lives we will arrive at a crossroads where dismissing desire is not enough. We begin to crave agency-- the ability to call the shots in our lives. You may be standing at that crossroads right now.

You sense your own power-- the power to live as you choose-- you just don't know how to tap into it.

It feels like restlessness. It feels like a yearning for freedom. It sounds like a quiet voice saying, I can do more. I can be more. I want more.

We get to the top with charm and charisma, by being able to attract allies and diffuse enemies, by learning people, taking a genuine interest in them and then tapping into their deepest desires. We chart our course by pairing our gut instincts with our creativity in order to think strategically, by being persistent, present, knowing what we want, and above all, by honoring our desire. 

The Five Laws of Feminine Power is game-changing for you, and for the world, because there is no other resource like this.

These are the subjects we consider too  taboo to discuss. We refrain from teaching women how to get what they want. And so, for too long, we've kept generations of women in the dark, ignorant of their own power.

Since the beginning of time, men have often relied on power by force— brute strength, struggle, contest, war,  rigid laws and social structures—to get what they want.

But there's a softer and more cunning alternative invented by womankind.

It is power by fantasy, rather than force.

Soft power is achieved through captivation,  seduction and persuasion and today, soft power is an indispensable currency in our modern world. It permeates politics, business, advertising and certainly the realm of romance. And soft power is a woman' s game. 

Soft power and seduction originates in the feminine mystique.

The sad irony is that men, over thousands of years,  learned how to wield our  own soft power against us, often times better than we wield it against them. 

For example, men often don’t force women to sleep with them without a commitment— they recognize our emotional voids (you'll learn how to do this isn module III) and they appeal to  our deepest fantasies. 

They use soft power to makes their lovers want to give in.

But let's be honest, men are great imitators, but  no one wields soft power like women.

For women, power is more than a game.

Power is our birthright.

It's a means of living our best lives-- and helping those we love do the same.

That is why it is essential  that we rise. The world needs us-- at our best.

 We are living at an incredible point in history during which women recognize their deep, mysterious, Earth-shifting  power and they are rising one by one. We are experiencing a dramatic shift in feminine consciousness and women all over the world are responding by stepping up in their communities and in their chosen industries. These women are giving themselves permission to be bold,  to act on their desires,  and to experience pleasure, power and purpose. These women recognize that femininity is the most powerful force on the planet-- and they are not afraid to use it. 

You are one of those women.

And this is your moment.

Welcome to the Five Laws of Feminine Power!

Powerfully yours, 


  • Achieve  emotional control, personal power and unshakeable confidence
  • Discover the truth about romance and the hidden nature of desire
  • Wipe out fear, doubt, destructive social conditioning and the emotional pain points that hold you back
  • Upgrade  and amplify your erotic energy for enhanced creativity, vitality, and magnetic presence
  • Peer behind anyone's social mask and grasp the fundamental laws of human nature
  • Make  anyone 'crave' you by tapping into one of the 9 nine hidden addictions (aka sweet spots)
  • Understand the principles of seduction and how to make them work for your relationships
  • Tap into the emotional levers that actually entice and influence people
  • Learn why we really fall in love... and why we stray 
  • The secret to  exercising your options in life and love
  • Understand the science of attraction & how 'beauty' is created
  • Get why  most women fail to get their needs and desires met --and how to avoid ALL of the traps 
  • Stop 'winging it' and  moving through life by trial and error! Master the unspoken, unwritten rules of playing to win!
Ayesha K. Faines
Ayesha K. Faines
Journalist/ Founder of Women Love Power

Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, thought leader, and rising voice for feminine power and social change. Her probing research and provocative insights into sexual politics and soft power have been the subject of viral videos,  national media  attention, national keynotes and invitations to speak on college campuses. She is the creator and founder of Women Love Power, a digital educational platform, where she's amassed a  fierce, international following, over 25,000 women strong and she has dedicated a decade to researching the unique ways that women acquire and wield power. In addition to her work as a writer and speaker, she uses her unique expertise in feminine power to serve as strategist to promising female leaders in their quest for political office. Ayesha's passion, away from work, is dance and she performs and competes salsa "on two" as a member of a professional competitive team. She began her career as a local television reporter and financial news journalist. She is graduate of Yale University.

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